6 Ways to Approach the Person You Like
In such a hectic world, it has become hard to find a partner. And when we find one, it is even harder to approach. Tell us honestly; have you ever fell into those awkward situations where you continuously gaze at someone, believing that the other person will initiate the conversation?
Generally, nothing happens in such situations, and the romantic story ends before the beginning.
If you don’t want to end your love story at the beginning, make sure you read all these 6 ways to approach the person you like.
- Clear Up Clutter
Don’t hesitate or overthink in your mind while approaching. Just clear up the clutter and go near the person you like to initiate the conversation. You can talk on any topic you fancy. We recommend you to analyze the environment. Look around and see which element can relate both of you. For example, if the person is in the library, you may ask silently, “What kind of book is it?” Or even may ask, “Have you ever read that book? What you haven’t? It’s similar to your genre.”
- Scrape Details
Have you ever seen actors like Shah Rukh Khan and Ranbir Kapoor helping girls in movies? Yes, we know that real life is a bit different.
But you know what? A relationship counsellor, Dr. Aman Bhonsle says, “Ask them for help. It will help you seek more details. In the whole process, details play a crucial role. If you want to establish a connection, you will have to build a bridge of understanding.”
See! Understanding in a relationship allows you to identify the curiosity of the other person. Once you identify what they like, you can spend more time with them and come closer.
- Make Some Friends of Opposite Gender
If you don’t have the guts to start a conversation, admit it.
Now make some friends of the opposite gender to take the anxiety out of your mind. In addition to getting comfortable with the opposite gender, you can even take the help of your friend for the introduction. Let us assume that you are a shy boy who wants to talk to a girl. What if your female friend introduces you to the girl you have always wanted to talk with? Alright, your friend has completed half of the work. Let us move forward.
- Be Humoristic
Most people believe that decent behavior is enough to make other person like us. However, this isn’t the case. Along with heart-warming behavior, one must also have great humor.
A life coach, Vivek Shetty says, “Make sure that your humor goes well. Your humor should not be a forceful trash talk. One should apply humor, keeping in mind the current circumstances and conversation.”
- Learn to Be A Good Friend
Wait…!! Slow down. You don’t need to be in a hurry while approaching someone.
Well, you can say that it’s one of those marketers’ way who are selling their products comfortably. Instead of a sale, most of the marketers put more emphasize on the relation because before buying a product from someone customers need to trust. Trust comes with friendship. The same goes with the crush. If you really like them, then before getting into a relationship, you must first build a connection and trust as a friend.
- Is it the Right Time?
So, you have finally built a connection. Now what you’re waiting for? Go ahead and express your feelings and emotions. An Author who has made a remarkable career writing books on relationship, Ade D'Almeida says, “There is no doubt that actions speak louder than words but expressing your thoughts, feelings, and emotions to the person you like will be the core of your relationship. You should not start everything at rocket speed, have a good flow.”
If both of you have a great bonding and understanding of each other, then it’s a good idea to commit.
Patience
Have you noticed why we bothered to write patience separately at the bottom of this post?
Actually, this is what you need throughout the whole process.
Approaching someone you like is like building a house of cards. A little mistake may destruct the whole process and house as well. Thus, stay patient enough to build a house of trust and understanding where you both can spend a romantic life.
